Why are both of us so scared of rejection? I see this pretty lady almost every day as I come plus go from my flat however have this fear of talking to her because I am afraid she will reject me. But if I say nothing then I believe that it will haunt myself and others plus make myself and others into a more bitter person because I believe that my fears are stronger than me. So I have to get the nerve to say something without sounding care about a nervous fool. What do you suggest? Just go up plus talk to her, right? The Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C company where she works is situated a couple doors from my flat plus I see her sitting outside on the curb with her friend each day. I did get the nerve to say hi to her the other day plus she responded with a cheerful hello plus a large smile. Maybe I’ll go to the store plus buy a HEPA filter or something for my Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C program that I don’t genuinely need. I believe I just overthink things too much plus it leads to a type of paralysis in action. My mom calls it analysis paralysis when you believe about something too much plus allow it to conquer you. I’ll go to that Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C company this week plus talk to the pretty lady plus see what happens. I believe I’ll just ask her if she wants to be friends plus not beat around the bush. It’s exactly what I would have done when I was a 5 year old boy, so why is it so taxing to do now?