I feel I just overthink things too much & it leads to a style of paralysis in action.
Why are all of us so scared of rejection? I see this pretty lady almost every day as I come & go from our flat but have this fear of talking to her because I am afraid she will reject me. But if I say nothing then all of us guess that it will haunt me & make me into a more bitter person because I guess that our fears are stronger than me. So I have to get the nerve to say something separate from sounding prefer a anxious fool. What do you suggest? Just go up & talk to her, right? The Heating, Ventilation plus A/C supplier where she works is located a couple doors from our flat & I see her sitting outside on the curb with her buddy each day. I did get the nerve to say hi to her the other day & she responded with a cheerful hello & a large smile. Maybe I’ll go to the store & buy a HEPA filter or something for our Heating, Ventilation plus A/C idea that I don’t actually need. I feel I just overthink things too much & it leads to a style of paralysis in action. My mom calls it analysis paralysis when you suppose about something too much & allow it to conquer you. I’ll go to that Heating, Ventilation plus A/C supplier this month & talk to the pretty lady & see what happens. I feel I’ll just ask her if she wants to be friends & not beat around the bush. It’s exactly what I would have done when I was a 5 year seasoned boy, so why is it so difficult to do now?