It feels that in my life with my 2 parents, my dad has control over everything.
It’s not genuinely that big a deal obviously.
My Dad is just glad in life in general. I think it’s because my dad does everything that he can to be sure our lives are phenomenal in every way imaginable; Dad has worked her butt off over the years as well as it has paid off. My Dad always wanted to be a stay at lakeside house Dad as well as take care of myself and others growing up as well as my dad worked 2 different tasks to help make sure that happened. I believe I shouldn’t say she is controlling but Dad does want to see my mother glad at all costs. My dad doesn’t genuinely like her health or if he’s weary. Dad will find a way to succeed at all costs. These afternoons she doesn’t have to work 2 tasks so Dad gets to spend more time with us at home, which is a big change before I turned 10. I barely saw the guy! Now that he’s at the lake house all the time Dad takes control of the tv, dinner chances as well as the temperature control of the house. I’m not genuinely a huge fan of him messing with the dial thermostat settings because she is never comfortable. This actually makes myself and others feel uncomfortable because one hour I recognize the nice air conditioning as well as an hour later I recognize the gas furnace on full blast. I don’t know if she is still trying to find comfort in being at the lake house but she is now messing with my livelihood. Regardless, I’m going to allow a bit of time although I hope Dad figures it out soon.