It feels that in my life with my 2 parents, my dad has control or say in everything.
It’s not really a big deal apparently.
My mom is just happy in life in general. I think it’s because my dad does everything he can to make sure our lives are phenomenal in every way imaginable. He has worked his butt off over the years and it has paid off. My mom always wanted to be a stay at home mom and take care of me growing up and my dad worked 2 jobs to help make sure that happened. I guess I shouldn’t say he is controlling but he does want to see my mother happy at all costs. My dad doesn’t really care about his health or if he’s exhausted. He will find a way to succeed at all costs. These days he doesn’t have to work 2 jobs so he gets to spend more time with us at home, which is a big change before I turned 10. I barely saw the guy. Now that he’s home all the time he takes control of the tv, dinner options and the temperature control of the house. I’m not really a big fan of him messing with the dial thermostat settings because he is never comfortable. This actually makes me uncomfortable because one minute I feel the nice air conditioning and 10 minutes later I feel the furnace on full blast. I don’t know if he is still trying to find comfort in being home but he is now messing with my livelihood. Regardless, I’m going to give it a bit of time but I hope he figures it out soon.